Eating Disorder Recovery

Recovery is possible. But it requires professional support—not an app, not willpower, not going it alone.

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Important Notice

This page is NOT a treatment guide. Eating disorder recovery requires professional medical, psychological, and nutritional support.

If you're struggling with an eating disorder:

• National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) Helpline: 1-800-931-2237
• Crisis Text Line: Text "NEDA" to 741741
• ANAD Helpline: 1-888-375-7767

Mo can support your recovery journey, but cannot and should not replace your treatment team.

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## 📖 The Story

When Control Became Chaos

Meet Jordan.

It started innocently. A diet. "Just getting healthy." Cutting out junk food. Then cutting more. And more. The scale became a judge. The mirror became an enemy. Food became fear.

Jordan's days revolved around calories, numbers, rules. Breakfast: skipped. Lunch: an apple. Dinner: whatever could be pushed around a plate without actually eating. The body weakened. The mind screamed. But the eating disorder whispered: "You're in control."

Except Jordan wasn't. The disorder was.

The breaking point came quietly.

Not dramatically. Just... emptiness. Standing in front of the mirror, Jordan couldn't remember the last time food brought joy. Couldn't remember feeling anything but anxiety. The body was failing. The mind was exhausted. The eating disorder promised safety, but delivered only suffering.

A parent noticed. A friend spoke up. A doctor asked hard questions. Jordan finally said the words: "I think I need help."

Treatment was terrifying.

Letting go of control felt like falling. Eating felt like failure. Weight restoration felt like losing the one thing that mattered. But the treatment team—therapist, dietitian, doctor—held space for the fear. They didn't dismiss it. They walked through it.

Slowly, food became less scary. Meals became routine instead of torture. Weight restoration wasn't the end of the world—it was the beginning of living again. The eating disorder voice got quieter. Not gone, but manageable.

Two years later:

Jordan still has hard days. Moments when the disorder whispers. But now, Jordan has tools. A team. A life beyond numbers and rules. Food is fuel and pleasure. The body is respected, not punished. Recovery isn't perfect—but it's real.

Meet Sam.

Sam's story looked different. Not restriction—bingeing. Eating in secret. Shame cycles. Promising "never again," then finding themselves elbow-deep in a bag of chips at 2am, feeling completely out of control.

No one talked about binge eating disorder like they talked about anorexia. Sam felt invisible. "Just stop eating so much," people said, as if it were that simple. As if willpower could fix a mental illness.

Sam's turning point was different.

Reading about binge eating disorder and realizing: "This is me. This isn't a moral failing. This is an illness." Finding a therapist who specialized in eating disorders. Learning that restriction leads to bingeing. That dieting makes it worse, not better.

Recovery meant learning to eat regularly. To stop labeling foods "good" or "bad." To sit with emotions instead of numbing them with food. To rebuild trust with the body.

It took time. Setbacks happened. But with professional support, Sam learned: bingeing wasn't a character flaw. It was a symptom. And symptoms can be treated.

Both Jordan and Sam learned the same truth:

You can't recover alone. Eating disorders are complex, powerful, medical illnesses. They require professional treatment. Nutrition is part of recovery—but it must be guided by specialists who understand the nuances, the risks, the psychological components.

Recovery is possible. But it requires help.

This is why professional support isn't optional—it's essential.

## 🚶 Journey

The Recovery Timeline: What to Expect

Recovery from eating disorders is non-linear, highly individual, and requires professional guidance. This timeline is general—your team will guide your specific journey.

Pre-Recovery: Recognizing the Problem

What's happening:

• Eating disorder is in control
• Physical and mental health declining
• May not recognize illness (denial common)
• Others may express concern

What this phase looks like:

• Rituals around food intensifying
• Social isolation
• Physical symptoms emerging (fatigue, dizziness, GI issues, etc.)
• Mental health deteriorating (anxiety, depression, obsessive thoughts)

The shift:

• Moment of clarity (personal or prompted by others)
• Deciding to seek help
• First appointment with professional

Early Recovery: Weeks 1-4

What's happening physically:

• Medical stabilization (if needed)
• Beginning nutritional rehabilitation
• Physical discomfort common (digestive issues, fullness, bloating)
• Energy may be low
• Weight changes beginning

What's happening mentally:

• Extreme anxiety around food
• Eating disorder thoughts loud and constant
• Fear of weight gain (or loss of control for BED)
• Ambivalence about recovery
• Challenging deeply held beliefs

What recovery work looks like:

• Meeting with treatment team regularly (multiple times per week)
• Following meal plan from ED dietitian
• Beginning to challenge rules and rituals
• Learning to sit with discomfort
• Identifying triggers and developing coping skills

Common experiences:

• "I can't do this."
• "This is too hard."
• "I was fine before." (You weren't, but the ED voice is loud)
• Physical discomfort after eating
• Intense urges to engage in behaviors

Support needed:

• Daily check-ins with treatment team or support person
• Meal support (eating with others)
• Removing scales and mirrors (if helpful)
• Structured schedule

Early-to-Middle Recovery: Months 2-6

What's happening physically:

• Body adjusting to regular eating (if restricting previously)
• Weight stabilizing toward natural set point
• Metabolism recalibrating
• GI system healing
• Energy improving but inconsistent
• Physical changes (body composition shifting)

What's happening mentally:

• ED thoughts still present but less constant
• More "good days" emerging
• Beginning to separate self from disorder
• Working on underlying issues in therapy (trauma, perfectionism, control)
• Learning emotional regulation skills
• Challenging cognitive distortions

What recovery work looks like:

• Expanding food variety gradually
• Challenging fear foods with dietitian support
• Eating in more varied situations (restaurants, social events)
• Reducing compensatory behaviors (if present)
• Building distress tolerance
• Developing identity beyond the illness

Common experiences:

• Grief for the eating disorder (it served a purpose, even if harmful)
• Body image struggles (this is often hardest part)
• Fear that weight will keep increasing forever (it won't—it stabilizes)
• Frustration with slow progress
• Moments of clarity: "I can do this"

Support needed:

• Continued regular appointments with team
• Support groups (in-person or online)
• Meal support as needed
• Therapy addressing underlying issues

Middle Recovery: Months 6-12

What's happening physically:

• Weight stable (at healthy set point for your body)
• Energy consistent
• Physical symptoms mostly resolved
• Body finding its natural equilibrium
• Hunger/fullness cues returning (if had been lost)

What's happening mentally:

• More good days than bad
• ED thoughts present but manageable
• Using coping skills more automatically
• Challenging situations (stress, transitions) still trigger symptoms
• Beginning to enjoy food again
• Body image improving (slowly)

What recovery work looks like:

• Transitioning toward intuitive eating (with professional guidance)
• Navigating challenging situations (holidays, vacations, life stress)
• Reducing treatment intensity (fewer appointments as appropriate)
• Focusing on life beyond recovery (work, relationships, hobbies)
• Relapse prevention planning

Common experiences:

• "I forgot about my eating disorder for a whole day"
• Eating a fear food without panic
• Looking in mirror and feeling neutral (not hate, maybe not love, but neutral is progress)
• Life becoming about more than food and body

Support needed:

• Regular but less frequent appointments
• Accountability partner
• Continued therapy

Ongoing Recovery: 1+ Years

What's happening physically:

• Body functioning normally
• Weight stable
• Energy good
• Physical health restored

What's happening mentally:

• ED thoughts rare or brief when they occur
• Able to recognize and redirect thoughts quickly
• Body image mostly positive (or at least neutral)
• Food is just food—not emotional
• Living life without constant focus on eating/body

What recovery work looks like:

• Maintenance therapy (monthly or as-needed check-ins)
• Using skills automatically
• Helping others (when ready—not required)
• Continuing personal growth work
• Staying connected to support network

Common experiences:

• Eating disorder feels like "something I used to struggle with"
• Eating flexibly and joyfully
• Body appreciation (even if not "love")
• Life full of meaning beyond weight/shape

Support needed:

• Maintenance appointments (frequency varies)
• Support network
• Self-awareness for early signs of relapse

Important Notes on the Journey

Non-linear progression:

• Setbacks are NOT failures
• You might move back and forth between stages
• Triggers (stress, life transitions) can temporarily increase symptoms
• Progress isn't always visible day-to-day

Timeline variability:

• Some recover faster; some need more time
• Severity, duration of illness, and individual factors affect timeline
• Comparison is unhelpful—focus on YOUR journey

Recovery is possible:

• Full recovery means eating without distress, positive body image, life beyond the disorder
• Research shows many people achieve full recovery with treatment
• Recovered individuals show same body appreciation as those who never had an ED

You need a team:

• This journey cannot be done alone
• Professional support is essential
• Your team will adjust the timeline based on your specific needs

## 🧠 The Science

The Biology and Psychology of Eating Disorders

Why Eating Disorders Are Medical Illnesses

Eating disorders are not choices, vanity, or "phases." They are serious mental illnesses with biological, psychological, and social components.

The biological basis:

• Genetics: 50-80% heritable (similar to schizophrenia)

  • Family history significantly increases risk
  • Specific genes affect serotonin, dopamine regulation
  • Temperament (anxiety, perfectionism) has genetic components

• Brain structure and function:

  • Altered activity in reward centers (dopamine)
  • Differences in insula (body perception)
  • Prefrontal cortex changes (decision-making, impulse control)
  • These changes partly pre-exist illness and partly result from malnutrition

• Neurotransmitters:

  • Serotonin dysregulation (mood, impulse control, satiety)
  • Dopamine dysregulation (reward, motivation)
  • Norepinephrine changes (stress response)

The starvation effect:

• Malnutrition changes brain function
• Minnesota Starvation Experiment (1944): Healthy men, semi-starved, developed ED symptoms
  • Obsessive thoughts about food
  • Rituals around eating
  • Depression, anxiety
  • Social withdrawal
  • Binge eating when refed
• Key insight: Refeeding/nutritional rehabilitation is medically necessary to allow brain to function normally

The Types: What's Happening in Each

Anorexia Nervosa:

• Core features: Restriction, fear of weight gain, distorted body image
• Biology:
  • Starvation triggers brain reward (paradoxically reinforcing restriction)
  • Hunger signals become distorted
  • Body temperature, heart rate, metabolism decrease (adaptation to starvation)
  • Bone density loss, organ damage, hormonal disruption
• Mortality: Highest of any psychiatric illness (5-10% mortality rate)

Bulimia Nervosa:

• Core features: Binge-purge cycles, feeling out of control, shame
• Biology:
  • Restriction triggers biological drive to binge (survival mechanism)
  • Purging disrupts electrolytes (dangerous for heart)
  • Digestive system damage
  • Dental erosion (from vomiting)
  • Metabolic chaos from cycle

Binge Eating Disorder:

• Core features: Recurrent bingeing without purging, distress, loss of control
• Biology:
  • Often preceded by dieting/restriction
  • Reward system dysregulation
  • Impaired satiety signaling
  • Using food for emotional regulation (dopamine hit)
  • NOT about lack of willpower

ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder):

• Core features: Restriction based on sensory issues, fear of consequences (choking, vomiting), or lack of interest—NOT fear of weight gain
• Biology:
  • Sensory processing differences
  • Anxiety disorders often co-occur
  • May have roots in childhood feeding difficulties
  • Malnutrition from limited variety

Orthorexia (not officially classified but clinically recognized):

• Core features: Obsession with "healthy" or "pure" eating
• Biology:
  • Anxiety-driven
  • Perfectionism
  • Can lead to malnutrition despite focus on "health"
  • Often overlaps with other EDs

Why You Can't Just "Eat Normally"

The brain in an eating disorder:

1. Malnutrition impairs cognition:

   • Decision-making compromised
   • Rigid thinking
   • Can't accurately assess own state
   • Executive function impaired

2. Distorted perception:

   • Body dysmorphia (seeing body inaccurately)
   • Interoception problems (can't accurately sense hunger, fullness, emotions)
   • Eating disorder thoughts feel like truth

3. Reinforcement cycles:

   • Restriction → temporary anxiety relief → reinforces restriction
   • Bingeing → temporary emotional relief → shame → restriction → more bingeing
   • Brain learns these maladaptive patterns

Why professional treatment is essential:

• Medical monitoring: Refeeding syndrome, cardiac issues, electrolyte imbalances are dangerous
• Nutritional rehabilitation: Specialized dietitians know how to refeed safely and challenge ED thoughts
• Psychological treatment: Address underlying issues, build coping skills, change thought patterns
• Support for weight restoration: This is terrifying; you need professional support to navigate it

The Role of Nutrition in Recovery

Nutritional rehabilitation:

• Restores physical health
• Allows brain to function normally (can't do therapy effectively while malnourished)
• Rebuilds metabolism
• Heals organ damage
• Restores bone density (partially)
• Regulates hormones

The refeeding process (requires medical supervision):

• Initial phase: Gradual increase in calories to avoid refeeding syndrome (dangerous electrolyte shifts)
• Middle phase: Continued increases toward weight restoration
• Later phase: Stabilization and transition toward intuitive eating

Why meal plans are used:

• Remove decision-making (reduce anxiety)
• Ensure adequate nutrition
• Challenge ED rules systematically
• Provide structure and safety

The goal (over time):

• Transition to intuitive eating
• Flexible eating (all foods, no rules)
• Eating for nourishment and pleasure
• Body trust

The Set Point Theory

What it is:

• Bodies have a natural weight range (set point)
• Influenced by genetics, biology, history
• Body defends this weight (metabolism adjusts to maintain it)

Why it matters in recovery:

• Weight restoration means returning to YOUR set point (not a number chosen arbitrarily)
• Trying to maintain below set point = constant hunger, obsession, metabolic suppression
• At set point: hunger normalizes, energy stable, body functions optimally

The science:

• Minnesota Starvation Study demonstrated this
• Hormones (leptin, ghrelin) regulate weight
• Metabolism slows with restriction, speeds with adequate intake
• Dieting doesn't change set point—it triggers biological response to return to it

Why Dieting Makes Eating Disorders Worse

The restriction-binge cycle:

• Restriction (physical or mental) → Body perceives famine → Biological drive to eat increases → Binge → Shame → More restriction → Repeat

The biology:

• Ghrelin (hunger hormone) increases
• Leptin (satiety hormone) decreases
• Body lowers metabolic rate
• Brain increases food focus (survival mechanism)

Evidence:

• Dieting is strongest predictor of developing an eating disorder
• 35% of "normal dieters" progress to pathological dieting; 20-25% of those develop eating disorders

The recovery paradox:

• Eating MORE regularly and adequately REDUCES obsession with food
• Stopping restriction REDUCES bingeing
• Weight restoration REDUCES eating disorder thoughts

Recovery Outcomes: The Hope

Full recovery is possible:

• 60-80% of people achieve full or partial recovery with treatment
• "Full recovery" means:
  • Eating flexibly without distress
  • Body image positive or neutral
  • Life focused on things beyond food/weight
  • Physical health restored

Brain healing:

• Brain changes are partly reversible with nutritional rehabilitation
• New neural pathways can be built
• Cognitive function improves significantly

Research shows:

• People fully recovered have same body appreciation as those who never had an ED
• Earlier intervention = better outcomes
• Professional treatment significantly improves recovery rates

The bottom line: Eating disorders are complex medical illnesses with biological roots. Nutrition is essential medicine in recovery—but must be administered by professionals who understand the risks, the psychology, and the physiology. Recovery rewires the brain, heals the body, and gives you your life back.

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📖 What This Page Is For

This page exists to:

• ✅ Validate that recovery is possible
• ✅ Explain why professional support is essential
• ✅ Help you understand what recovery involves
• ✅ Provide resources and support information
• ✅ Guide how Mo can support (not replace) treatment

This page will NOT:

• ❌ Provide specific meal plans
• ❌ Give calorie or weight targets
• ❌ Offer detailed protocols
• ❌ Replace professional treatment

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## 👀 Signs & Signals

Recognizing Eating Disorders and Recovery Progress

Warning Signs: When to Seek Professional Help

Physical warning signs:

• Significant weight changes (loss or gain in short period)
• Dizziness, fainting, weakness
• Always feeling cold
• Disrupted menstrual cycles or loss of period
• Digestive issues (constipation, bloating, pain)
• Dental problems (erosion from purging)
• Calluses on knuckles (from induced vomiting)
• Hair loss or thinning
• Dry skin, brittle nails
• Sleep disturbances
• Difficulty concentrating

Behavioral warning signs:

• Avoiding meals or eating in secret
• Rigid food rules ("can't eat after 6pm," "only eating 'clean' foods")
• Excessive exercise (even when injured, exhausted, or in bad weather)
• Frequent bathroom trips after meals
• Hoarding or hiding food
• Wearing baggy clothes to hide body
• Weighing constantly or avoiding scale entirely
• Food rituals (cutting food into tiny pieces, eating in specific order)
• Avoiding social situations involving food

Emotional/psychological warning signs:

• Intense fear of weight gain
• Preoccupation with food, calories, body
• Distorted body image ("feeling fat" despite being underweight)
• Low self-esteem tied to body/weight
• Mood swings, irritability
• Anxiety or depression
• Social withdrawal
• Feeling out of control around food

Emergency signs (seek immediate medical help):

• Fainting or loss of consciousness
• Chest pain or irregular heartbeat
• Severe dehydration
• Extremely low weight (BMI <15)
• Suicidal thoughts or self-harm
• Uncontrollable purging or laxative use
• Signs of refeeding syndrome (if increasing intake): confusion, weakness, breathing difficulty

Progress Markers in Recovery

Early recovery (first few months):

• Following meal plan consistently (even when difficult)
• Keeping treatment appointments
• Challenging one small food rule
• Eating with others (not isolating)
• Staying at table after meals (not immediately purging/exercising)
• Tolerating physical discomfort without compensating
• Opening up in therapy

Middle recovery (months 3-9):

• Eating fear foods with less anxiety
• Weight stabilizing
• Energy improving
• Less frequent ED thoughts
• Using coping skills instead of behaviors
• Engaging in hobbies/activities again
• Reconnecting with friends/family
• Periods returning (if previously absent)

Later recovery (9+ months):

• Eating variety of foods without extreme anxiety
• Spontaneous eating (not every meal planned)
• Body image improving (or at least less distressing)
• Life focused on things beyond food/weight
• Enjoying food and social eating
• ED thoughts fleeting, not consuming
• Physical health restored (energy, sleep, periods, digestion normal)

Relapse Warning Signs

Early indicators (catch these early):

• Skipping meals or snacks occasionally
• Increasing food rules or restrictions
• Weighing more frequently
• Increasing exercise
• Body-checking behaviors increasing
• More negative self-talk about body
• Isolating from support system
• Canceling therapy appointments

More concerning signs:

• Returning to regular restriction or purging
• Significant weight changes
• Stopping treatment
• Lying to treatment team
• ED thoughts loud and constant again

What to do if you notice these:

• Tell your treatment team immediately
• Increase support (more frequent appointments)
• Use relapse prevention plan
• Reach out to support network
• Don't wait—early intervention prevents full relapse

Body Signals in Recovery (What's Normal)

Digestive changes (common and temporary):

• Bloating after meals (body adjusting to regular intake)
• Fullness lasting longer than expected
• Constipation or changes in bowel habits
• Increased hunger (body healing, metabolism increasing)
• These typically resolve within weeks to months

Energy changes:

• Initial fatigue (body using energy for healing)
• Energy fluctuations before stabilizing
• Eventually: consistent, good energy

Weight changes:

• Initial rapid weight gain (water weight, glycogen stores)
• Gradual weight increase toward set point
• Weight distribution changing (may not match expectations)
• Eventually: weight stabilizes at set point

Emotional signals:

• Increased emotions (as numbness from malnutrition lifts)
• Anxiety around eating (gradually decreases)
• Grief, anger, fear about recovery (normal and workable in therapy)

All of these are NORMAL in recovery. Your treatment team will help you navigate them.

How to Support Someone in Recovery

Helpful actions:

• Believe them when they say they're struggling
• Encourage professional treatment (don't try to be their therapist)
• Eat meals with them (normalize eating)
• Don't comment on their body (even "compliments" can be triggering)
• Ask how you can help (let them guide you)
• Be patient (recovery takes time)
• Educate yourself about eating disorders

Avoid:

• Food or body comments ("you look so much healthier" can sound like "you look fat")
• Monitoring their eating (unless you're asked to provide meal support)
• Talking about diets, calories, or your own body concerns around them
• Treating them as fragile or broken
• Giving up on them

What to say:

• "I'm here for you."
• "Recovery is hard, and you're doing great."
• "I believe in you."
• "How can I support you?"
• "Let's do [non-food activity] together."

What NOT to say:

• "You don't look like you have an eating disorder."
• "Just eat." / "Just stop purging."
• "I wish I had your discipline."
• "You look so much better now!" (focus on behavior/health, not appearance)

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🧠 Understanding Eating Disorders

They're Not About Food

Eating disorders are serious mental illnesses with:

• Biological components (genetics, brain chemistry)
• Psychological components (trauma, anxiety, control)
• Social components (culture, relationships)

They're not vanity, lack of willpower, or choices. They have the highest mortality rate of any psychiatric illness.

Types of Eating Disorders

Type	Core Features
Anorexia Nervosa	Restriction, fear of weight gain, distorted body image
Bulimia Nervosa	Binge-purge cycles, shame, feeling out of control
Binge Eating Disorder	Recurrent bingeing without purging, distress
ARFID	Restriction based on sensory issues or fear, not weight
OSFED	Clinically significant but doesn't fit above categories

All require professional treatment. All are treatable.

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## 🎯 Practical Application

How Professional Treatment Works

IMPORTANT: This section describes what professional eating disorder treatment involves. It is NOT a guide to self-treat. All eating disorder recovery must be supervised by specialized professionals.

The Treatment Team

Core members:

1. Medical Doctor or Psychiatrist

   • Monitors physical health (heart, vitals, labs)
   • Manages medical complications
   • Prescribes medication if needed (anxiety, depression, OCD)
   • Assesses need for higher level of care

2. Therapist/Psychologist (ED-specialized)

   • Addresses underlying psychological issues
   • Treats co-occurring conditions (trauma, anxiety, depression)
   • Teaches coping skills and emotional regulation
   • Challenges cognitive distortions
   • Supports identity development beyond ED

3. Registered Dietitian (ED-specialized)

   • Creates and adjusts meal plan
   • Provides nutritional education (correcting ED misinformation)
   • Challenges food rules and fears systematically
   • Supports flexible eating development
   • Monitors nutritional rehabilitation

4. Additional support (as needed):

   • Psychiatrist (if separate from medical doctor)
   • Family therapist
   • Group therapy facilitator
   • Occupational therapist
   • Case manager

Levels of Care

Outpatient (least intensive):

• Live at home
• Weekly appointments with team members
• Appropriate for: Medically stable, motivated, strong support system

Intensive Outpatient (IOP):

• Live at home
• 3-5 days/week, several hours per day
• Group therapy, meal support, skills training
• Appropriate for: Need more structure than outpatient but don't need 24/7 care

Partial Hospitalization (PHP/Day Treatment):

• Live at home (or in housing)
• Full days (8+ hours), 5-7 days/week
• All meals supervised, intensive therapy
• Appropriate for: Need daily support but medically stable enough for nights at home

Residential:

• Live at treatment facility
• 24/7 support
• All meals supervised, intensive therapy, medical monitoring
• Appropriate for: Need 24/7 structure but not acute medical crisis

Inpatient/Hospitalization:

• Hospital setting
• Medical stabilization
• Appropriate for: Medical emergency, severe malnutrition, acute safety risk

Step-down approach: Typically start at level needed, then step down as progress occurs.

Treatment Modalities (What Therapy Looks Like)

Evidence-based approaches:

Family-Based Treatment (FBT) - for adolescents:

• Parents/caregivers take charge of refeeding
• Three phases: weight restoration, returning control, identity development
• Strong evidence base for adolescent anorexia

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT-E):

• Identifies and challenges disordered thoughts
• Changes behaviors
• Addresses maintaining factors
• Evidence for bulimia, binge eating disorder, anorexia

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT):

• Emotional regulation skills
• Distress tolerance
• Mindfulness
• Interpersonal effectiveness
• Particularly helpful for BED, emotional eating, self-harm

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT):

• Accepting difficult thoughts/feelings without acting on them
• Values-based living
• Psychological flexibility

Other approaches:

• Interpersonal therapy (IPT)
• Psychodynamic therapy
• Exposure therapy (for fear foods)
• Mindfulness-based approaches

The Meal Plan Approach

Why meal plans are used (not optional in early recovery):

• ED brain cannot make food decisions safely
• Removes decision-making → reduces anxiety
• Ensures adequate nutrition for brain healing
• Challenges ED rules systematically
• Provides structure and safety

What a meal plan includes:

• Specific meals and snacks (typically 3 meals + 2-3 snacks)
• Exchange system or specific foods
• Gradual increases (as needed for weight restoration)
• Challenge foods incorporated systematically
• Flexibility increases over time

Meal plan is NOT:

• A diet (it's medical nutrition therapy)
• Negotiable based on ED preferences
• Punishment
• Forever (goal is eventual intuitive eating)

Transition process:

• Early: Structured meal plan
• Middle: Some flexibility within structure
• Later: Intuitive eating with professional guidance

Working with the Team

Your role:

• Show up to appointments
• Be honest (even when scared)
• Follow meal plan (even when terrified)
• Use coping skills
• Communicate struggles
• Trust the process (even when you don't trust the ED thoughts)

Team's role:

• Medical and psychological safety
• Evidence-based treatment
• Holding hope when you can't
• Challenging ED while supporting you
• Adjusting treatment as needed

Communication is key:

• Tell team when you're struggling
• Ask questions
• Express fears
• Report symptoms (physical and mental)
• Be honest about behaviors (no judgment from good team)

Addressing Co-Occurring Conditions

Common co-occurring conditions:

• Anxiety disorders (OCD, social anxiety, generalized anxiety)
• Depression
• Trauma/PTSD
• Substance use
• Personality disorders
• ADHD
• Autism spectrum

Treatment addresses both:

• Can't fully treat ED without addressing underlying conditions
• Can't fully treat other conditions while malnourished
• Integrated treatment approach is best

Family/Loved Ones' Role

How families help:

• Meal support (eating with person in recovery)
• Reducing triggers at home (e.g., diet talk, scales)
• Attending family therapy
• Learning about EDs
• Supporting treatment plan
• Taking care of own mental health

Family therapy topics:

• Communication
• Boundaries
• Supporting without enabling
• Managing own emotions
• Reducing family conflict
• Rebuilding trust

Self-Care in Recovery (Professional-Guided)

Movement:

• Early recovery: Often restricted or supervised
• Goal: Joyful movement, not compensation
• Team determines when/how much is appropriate
• Recovery means learning movement is optional, not mandatory

Sleep:

• Prioritize rest (body healing requires energy)
• Address sleep issues with team
• Sleep often improves as nutrition improves

Stress management:

• Coping skills taught in therapy
• Alternatives to ED behaviors
• Healthy emotional regulation

Social connection:

• Re-engaging with friends, activities
• Support groups (ED-specific)
• Building life beyond ED

Boundary setting:

• Saying no to diet talk
• Protecting your recovery
• Communicating needs

Insurance and Access

Navigating insurance:

• Most insurance covers ED treatment (parity laws)
• Pre-authorization often required
• Appeal denials with team's help
• Some programs have financial assistance

If uninsured/underinsured:

• Community mental health centers
• Sliding scale providers
• NEDA, Project HEAL (treatment access assistance)
• University training clinics
• Group practices with financial aid

Don't let cost prevent seeking help. Resources exist. Your team can help navigate.

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🎯 Why Professional Help Is Essential

You Need a Team

Recovery typically requires:

• Medical doctor: Monitor physical health, vital signs
• Therapist/psychologist: Address underlying issues
• Registered dietitian (ED-specialized): Nutritional rehabilitation
• Psychiatrist (if needed): Medication management
• Support system: Family, friends, support groups

Why You Can't "Just Eat"

Eating disorders rewire the brain. Recovery involves:

• Renourishing the brain (which requires adequate intake)
• Processing emotions that have been numbed
• Building new neural pathways
• Addressing trauma and underlying issues

This takes time, expertise, and support. It's not about willpower.

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## 📸 What It Looks Like

Recovery in Real Life

CRITICAL NOTE: These examples show what recovery CAN look like with professional treatment. They are NOT prescriptions. Do not use these as self-treatment guides. All food-related recovery work must be supervised by an ED-specialized dietitian.

Example 1: Early Recovery from Anorexia (with professional support)

Background: Person in outpatient treatment, following meal plan from ED dietitian, seeing therapist twice weekly.

What a day might look like:

• 7am: Wake up, anxiety about breakfast already present
• 8am: Eat meal plan breakfast (prescribed by dietitian): Toast with peanut butter, banana, yogurt
  • ED thoughts loud: "This is too much."
  • Use coping skill: Text accountability partner, remind self this is medicine
• 10:30am: Meal plan snack: Granola bar and apple
  • Sit with discomfort, don't compensate
• 12:30pm: Lunch (eating with family for support): Sandwich, chips, fruit
  • ED thoughts: "You don't need all of this."
  • Family provides gentle encouragement, normalizes eating
• 3pm: Afternoon snack: Cheese and crackers
• 5pm: Therapy appointment
  • Process fear around eating
  • Challenge all-or-nothing thinking
  • Practice coping skills
• 6:30pm: Dinner with family: Pasta, vegetables, bread
  • Hardest meal of day, but stayed at table after eating (no immediate exercise)
• 8:30pm: Evening snack: Ice cream (challenge food this week)
  • Terrified, but dietitian assigned it
  • Used coping skills: deep breathing, called friend after

Behind the scenes:

• Following structured meal plan removes decision-making
• Support system crucial (family, friends, treatment team)
• Multiple challenging moments, but using skills instead of behaviors
• Progress isn't feeling good—it's acting opposite to ED

This is HARD. And normal for early recovery.

Example 2: Mid-Recovery from Bulimia (with professional support)

Background: Person in IOP program, following flexible meal plan, group therapy 3x/week.

What a day might look like:

• 8am: Breakfast: Eggs, toast, fruit
  • Less anxiety than early recovery, but still present
  • No urge to purge (eating regular meals reduces urge)
• 11am: IOP program (meal support for snack)
  • Eat with group: Yogurt and granola
  • Process feelings in group therapy after
• 1pm: Lunch at IOP: Sandwich, salad, cookie
  • Challenge dessert without purging
  • Stay in group room for 1 hour after (preventing behaviors)
• 3pm: DBT skills group
  • Learn distress tolerance for when urges arise
• 4pm: Leave IOP, go home
• 7pm: Dinner at home: Stir-fry with rice
  • Urge to binge after (old pattern)
  • Use skills: Call support person, go for walk (not compensatory, just distraction), journal
• 9pm: Evening snack if hungry: Small bowl cereal
  • Eating when hungry, not restricting (restriction triggers binge)
• 10pm: Check in with accountability partner about day

Behind the scenes:

• Regular structured eating prevents restriction-binge cycle
• Support immediately after challenging moments
• Using skills instead of behaviors
• Accountability reduces secrecy

Recovery means choosing different actions, even when urges are present.

Example 3: Later Recovery from Binge Eating Disorder

Background: Person in outpatient therapy, transitioning to intuitive eating with dietitian guidance.

What a day might look like:

• 8am: Breakfast based on hunger: Smoothie with protein powder, fruit, spinach
  • Chose based on what sounds good AND provides nutrition
  • No guilt
• 11am: Snack: Apple and almonds
  • Listened to body—was hungry
• 1pm: Lunch meeting with friend: Ordered burger and fries without anxiety
  • Enjoyed food AND conversation
  • Didn't think about it afterward
• 4pm: Noticed stress from work
  • Old pattern: would have binged
  • New pattern: Called therapist, used coping skills (deep breathing, went for walk), addressed stressor
• 7pm: Dinner: Salmon, quinoa, roasted vegetables
  • Cooked meal, enjoyed process
• 8pm: Noticed desire for dessert
  • Check in: Am I physically hungry, or is this emotional?
  • Answer: Bit of both, and that's okay
  • Had small bowl ice cream, enjoyed it, moved on
• 9:30pm: Not hungry, didn't eat
  • Old pattern: would have eaten anyway (anxiety or habit)
  • New pattern: Trusting body

Behind the scenes:

• Using food for nourishment and pleasure, not emotional regulation (most of the time)
• When emotions arise, addressing them directly instead of eating
• Flexibility—some meals planned, some intuitive
• Food is no longer the focus of life

Recovery means food becomes boring in the best way—it's just food.

What Recovery Does NOT Look Like

Common misconceptions:

❌ "I'll just eat healthy and exercise."

• Recovery requires professional support, not DIY approach
• "Healthy" eating can be orthorexia in disguise
• Exercise often needs to be restricted/supervised in recovery

❌ "I'll follow this meal plan I found online."

• Meal plans must be individualized by ED-specialized dietitian
• Generic plans can be dangerous (too low calorie, don't account for medical needs)

❌ "I'll count calories to make sure I'm eating enough."

• Calorie counting is an ED behavior
• Recovery means letting go of numbers
• Dietitian monitors adequacy, not you

❌ "I'll recover on my own to prove I can do it."

• ED convinces you that you don't need help
• Malnutrition impairs judgment—you can't think your way out
• Recovery requires team for safety

❌ "Recovery means I'll love my body."

• Recovery means respecting your body (love is bonus)
• Body neutrality is valid goal
• Focus is living life, not achieving perfect body image

Family Meal Support: What It Looks Like

Setup:

• Person in recovery at table with supportive family member(s)
• Meal plan food plated
• Distractions available if helpful (conversation, music, TV)

During meal:

• Supportive person eats same or similar food (normalizing)
• Gentle encouragement if person struggling: "I know this is hard. You're doing great."
• No food police: "You need to eat more." (Let dietitian handle portions)
• Conversation about non-food topics when possible
• If person gets upset, validate feelings: "It's okay to feel scared. The feelings will pass."

After meal:

• Stay at table or in shared space (depending on plan—prevents purging/exercise)
• Continue conversation, activity
• Acknowledge effort: "That took a lot of courage."
• Move on with day (don't keep talking about the meal)

What NOT to do:

• Monitor every bite
• Compare to others: "Your sister eats way more than that."
• Threaten or punish
• Show extreme emotion (anxiety, anger)
• Give up if person refuses

This is a team effort. Family training is part of treatment.

## 🚀 Getting Started

Taking the First Steps Toward Help

If you think you might have an eating disorder, here's how to begin seeking help.

Step 1: Recognize and Acknowledge

Ask yourself:

• Is food/weight/body taking up significant mental space?
• Are eating behaviors interfering with life (social, work, health)?
• Do I have physical symptoms (fatigue, dizziness, GI issues, period loss)?
• Am I engaging in behaviors I hide from others?
• Do I feel out of control around food?

If yes to several: You likely need professional evaluation.

It's okay to be unsure. That's what professionals are for—they can assess and help.

Step 2: Tell Someone

Who to tell:

• Trusted family member or friend
• School counselor or nurse
• Doctor
• Therapist (if you already have one)
• Helpline (anonymous if you're not ready to tell someone you know)

What to say: "I think I might have a problem with eating/food. I need help finding treatment."

If you're scared:

• That's normal
• You don't have to have all the answers
• Asking for help is the brave part

Step 3: Get Professional Evaluation

Start with:

• Primary care doctor: Can assess physical health, provide referrals
• NEDA Helpline (1-800-931-2237): Can help find local resources
• Therapist who specializes in EDs: Can evaluate and refer to team

The evaluation will assess:

• Eating behaviors
• Physical health
• Mental health
• Severity
• Appropriate level of care

Step 4: Build Your Team

Based on evaluation, you'll need:

• Medical doctor (ongoing monitoring)
• ED-specialized therapist
• ED-specialized dietitian
• Possibly psychiatrist (for medication)

Finding providers:

• Ask doctor for referrals
• Check NEDA website provider database
• Call your insurance for in-network providers
• Ask providers: "Do you specialize in eating disorders?"
  • If no, keep looking

Don't settle for general dietitian or therapist. ED specialization matters.

Step 5: Start Treatment

What to expect first:

• Lots of appointments (building treatment plan)
• Medical tests (bloodwork, EKG, vitals)
• Assessment questionnaires
• Creating meal plan with dietitian
• Beginning therapy
• Feeling overwhelmed (normal)

Your job:

• Show up
• Be as honest as you can
• Ask questions
• Follow recommendations (even when ED screams no)

Step 6: Build Support Network

Beyond treatment team:

• Support groups (in-person or online)
• Accountability partner (friend, family member)
• ED recovery communities (with caution—some can be triggering)
• Faith community (if applicable)

What support does:

• Reduces isolation
• Provides encouragement
• Normalizes struggle
• Celebrates victories

First Week Action Plan

Day 1:

• Acknowledge you need help (even just to yourself)
• Call NEDA Helpline (1-800-931-2237) OR schedule doctor appointment
• Tell one trusted person

Days 2-3:

• Research providers (if you have names/referrals)
• Check insurance coverage for ED treatment
• Write down questions for first appointment

Days 4-7:

• Schedule appointments (doctor, therapist, dietitian)
• Begin gathering medical history, medications, symptoms
• Identify one person to be support/accountability partner
• Practice saying: "I'm in recovery from an eating disorder" (even just in mirror)

First Month Goals

Week 1:

• Complete evaluations with team members
• Get meal plan from dietitian
• Begin following meal plan (best you can)
• Have first therapy session

Week 2:

• Continue meal plan
• Attend all appointments
• Identify one coping skill to practice
• Remove scale (if team recommends)

Week 3:

• Challenge one small food rule (with dietitian support)
• Use coping skills when urges arise
• Check in daily with support person
• Journal or track feelings (if helpful, not triggering)

Week 4:

• Review progress with team
• Adjust meal plan if needed
• Identify wins (no matter how small)
• Plan for Week 5

Common Barriers and How to Navigate

"I don't think I'm sick enough."

• There's no "sick enough" threshold for deserving help
• Early intervention has better outcomes
• Let professionals assess severity

"I'm scared of gaining weight."

• That fear is the eating disorder talking
• Team will support you through this
• Weight restoration (if needed) is medical treatment, not optional

"I can't afford treatment."

• Insurance covers ED treatment (appeal if denied)
• Sliding scale options exist
• NEDA and Project HEAL offer financial assistance
• Don't let cost stop you from seeking evaluation

"My family doesn't believe in therapy/EDs."

• Education can help (share resources with them)
• You can still seek help (if you're adult)
• If minor, talk to school counselor or doctor who can advocate
• Family therapy can help them understand

"I'm too ashamed to tell anyone."

• Shame is part of the illness
• Professionals have seen it all—no judgment
• Anonymous helplines are available first step
• Shame decreases with support

"What if treatment doesn't work for me?"

• Recovery is possible—research shows 60-80% full or partial recovery
• Different approaches work for different people
• If one provider/approach doesn't work, try another
• Don't give up

For Loved Ones: How to Help Someone Get Started

Express concern (not in moment of conflict): "I've noticed [specific behaviors]. I'm worried about you. I care about you and want to help. Would you be open to talking to a professional?"

Offer practical support:

• Help research providers
• Offer to go to first appointment
• Make the phone call if they're too anxious
• Provide transportation

Don't:

• Threaten or ultimatum (usually backfires)
• Comment on body/weight
• Try to force them to eat
• Give up if they resist initially

If immediate danger:

• Take to emergency room
• Call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
• Don't leave them alone

Remember: You can't force recovery, but you can provide support and resources.

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💚 What Recovery Looks Like

It's Not Linear

Reality:  ↗↘↗↗↘↗↘↗↗↗↘↗↗↗
Not:      →→→→→→→→→→→→→→

Expect:

• Good days and bad days
• Setbacks that don't erase progress
• Fear that decreases over time
• Slowly expanding food flexibility
• Gradual reconnection with your body

Stages of Recovery

Early Recovery:

• Working with treatment team
• Establishing regular eating
• Medical stabilization
• Beginning to challenge thoughts

Middle Recovery:

• Expanding food variety
• Addressing underlying issues in therapy
• Building coping skills
• More good days than bad

Ongoing Recovery:

• Life beyond the disorder
• Occasional struggles don't mean failure
• Identity beyond the illness
• Supporting others when ready

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## 🔧 Troubleshooting

Common Challenges in ED Recovery

CRITICAL: These are common struggles IN TREATMENT. If you're not in treatment, the solution to all of these is: get professional help. Do not try to navigate ED recovery alone.

Problem 1: "I'm terrified of weight restoration."

This is: The most common fear in anorexia recovery. Universal. Expected.

Why it happens:

• ED has convinced you that weight gain = failure
• Body image distortion makes accurate perception impossible
• Fear of losing control
• Identity tied to being thin
• Cultural messages about weight

What your treatment team will do:

• Validate the fear (it's real, even if ED-driven)
• Explain set point theory and why your body needs to reach natural weight
• Support you through the process emotionally
• Monitor medical safety
• Challenge ED thoughts in therapy
• Remind you that weight restoration is medical treatment, not optional

What helps:

• Trust the team (they've guided many through this)
• Remember malnutrition is affecting your thinking
• Focus on behaviors (following meal plan) not feelings
• Blind weighing (not seeing number) if helpful
• Removing mirrors temporarily if body checking is intense
• Connecting with recovered people who've been through it
• Reminding yourself: this fear is the ED, not you

What doesn't help:

• Negotiating weight targets with team (they're medical, not negotiable)
• Seeking reassurance about specific numbers
• Comparing your body to others
• Looking for "proof" you don't need to gain weight

Timeline: Fear typically peaks in first 3-6 months, decreases as brain receives adequate nutrition and you see life improving.

Problem 2: "I keep having urges to engage in behaviors" (restricting, purging, bingeing, over-exercising)

This is: Normal. Urges don't disappear immediately. Recovery is acting opposite to urges.

Why it happens:

• Brain pathways are established (habits)
• Behaviors provided temporary relief (brain remembers)
• Stress or triggers activate urges
• ED thoughts suggest behaviors will help

What your treatment team will do:

• Teach urge surfing (riding out urge without acting)
• Provide coping skills (distraction, grounding, calling support)
• Help identify triggers
• Create urge action plan
• Normalize that urges are part of recovery

What helps:

• Delay acting on urge (urges peak and decrease if you wait)
• Use coping skills taught in therapy
• Call support person
• Distract (activity, TV, conversation)
• Remind yourself: "Urge doesn't mean I have to act"
• Opposite action (DBT skill: do opposite of urge)

Urge action plan (create with team):

1. Notice urge arising
2. Pause (don't act immediately)
3. Use coping skill: [specific skill]
4. Call [support person]
5. Ride it out for [timeframe, e.g., 20 minutes]
6. Check in: has urge decreased?
7. If still intense, call therapist or crisis line

Timeline: Urge frequency and intensity decrease over months. By 6-12 months, urges are much less frequent and easier to manage.

Problem 3: "I feel so bloated and uncomfortable after eating."

This is: Extremely common, especially in early recovery from restriction. Temporary.

Why it happens:

• GI system adjusting to regular food intake
• Delayed gastric emptying (stomach empties slowly)
• GI motility changes
• Body holding onto water (edema, rehydration)
• Not actually "bloated" but feels that way (sometimes body dysmorphia)

What your treatment team will do:

• Normalize this experience
• Explain it's temporary (resolves within weeks to months)
• Rule out medical issues if severe
• Adjust meal plan texture/timing if needed
• Teach coping with discomfort without compensating

What helps:

• Loose, comfortable clothing
• Gentle movement (short walks, not exercise) if team approves
• Heating pad on stomach
• Staying at table/in social space after meals (prevents compensating)
• Reminding yourself: "This is temporary. My body is healing."
• Patience (usually resolves in 4-8 weeks)

What doesn't help:

• Restricting intake (makes it worse long-term)
• Excessive water drinking to "flush"
• Using laxatives or diuretics (dangerous)
• Weighing obsessively

When to tell team: If severe pain, vomiting, or not improving after several weeks.

Problem 4: "I hate my body so much. Body image is worse, not better."

This is: Expected. Body image often lags behind other recovery progress.

Why it happens:

• Body changing (if in weight restoration)
• Brain still malnourished early on (affects perception)
• Underlying issues (trauma, low self-esteem) surfacing
• Cultural messages about bodies
• ED thoughts fighting recovery

What your treatment team will do:

• Work on body image in therapy (long-term process)
• Teach body neutrality (don't have to love it, just respect it)
• Challenge distorted thoughts
• Exposure work (mirrors, photos) when appropriate
• Address underlying issues fueling body hatred

What helps:

• Body neutrality approach: "I don't love my body, but I can appreciate what it does."
• Limiting body checking (mirrors, photos, measuring, trying on clothes)
• Stopping comparison to others (social media breaks if needed)
• Wearing comfortable clothes (not too tight or too loose)
• Focusing on function over form: "My body allows me to [hug, dance, think, laugh]."
• Gratitude practices for body's capabilities
• Time (body image improves slowly, often last piece of recovery)

What doesn't help:

• Seeking reassurance about appearance
• Excessive mirror checking
• Comparison
• Waiting to love your body before living life

Goal: Body respect and neutrality, not necessarily love. That's enough for full recovery.

Problem 5: "I'm struggling with eating around others/social situations."

This is: Common. ED thrives in isolation; recovery requires socializing.

Why it happens:

• Anxiety about being watched
• Loss of control over food (restaurants, others cooking)
• Fear of judgment
• Difficulty eating "normally" in front of others
• Social skills rusty from isolation

What your treatment team will do:

• Gradual exposure to social eating
• Role-play challenging situations
• Help choose restaurant meals (dietitian can help)
• Provide scripts for declining food comments
• Process anxiety before and after

What helps:

• Start small: eat with one trusted person, build up
• Plan ahead: look at menu beforehand, choose meal with dietitian support
• Bring support person initially
• Set boundaries: "I'd prefer not to discuss food/dieting."
• Focus on conversation, not just food
• Remember: people are less focused on your eating than you think
• Practice: gets easier with repetition

Specific challenges:

Someone comments on what you're eating: "I'm working with a dietitian. This is what they recommended." or "I'd rather not discuss my food choices."

Someone offers seconds/dessert and you're anxious: Check in with body: Am I hungry? If yes: "Yes, thank you." If no: "I'm full, but thank you." Either is fine.

Family member makes triggering comment: "That comment isn't helpful for my recovery. Can we talk about something else?"

Problem 6: "I'm in recovery but feel like I'm 'failing' because I still have ED thoughts."

This is: Misunderstanding what recovery looks like. Thoughts ≠ behaviors.

Why it happens:

• Belief that recovery = no ED thoughts
• Perfectionism
• Comparing to others
• Unrealistic expectations

Reality of recovery:

• Thoughts decrease over time but may never fully disappear
• Recovery = not acting on thoughts
• Thoughts become background noise, not consuming
• You recognize them as ED, not truth

What your treatment team will do:

• Normalize ongoing thoughts
• Teach thought defusion (observing thoughts without believing/acting on them)
• Redefine success as behaviors, not thoughts
• Challenge perfectionistic standards

What helps:

• Recognizing thoughts: "That's my ED talking."
• Separating yourself from ED: "The ED says..., but I choose..."
• Measuring progress by behaviors: "I had ED thoughts but ate my meal plan anyway."
• Accepting thoughts will be there: "I can have this thought and not act on it."

Recovery isn't:

• Never having an ED thought again
• Feeling 100% positive about eating/body
• Perfect adherence to meal plan every single time

Recovery is:

• Acting opposite to ED most of the time
• Life beyond food/weight/body
• Using skills when struggles arise
• Continuing to move forward despite setbacks

## ✅ Quick Reference

At-a-Glance Guide

Crisis Resources

Resource	Contact	When to Use
NEDA Helpline	1-800-931-2237	Information, referrals, support
NEDA Crisis Text Line	Text "NEDA" to 741741	Crisis support via text
ANAD Helpline	1-888-375-7767	Support and resources
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline	988 or text	Mental health crisis, suicidal thoughts
Emergency Room	911 or local ER	Medical emergency, severe danger

Warning Signs Checklist

Seek professional evaluation if several of these are present:

Physical:

• Significant weight changes
• Dizziness/fainting
• Always cold
• GI issues
• Period loss/disruption
• Hair loss
• Fatigue

Behavioral:

• Avoiding meals
• Rigid food rules
• Excessive exercise
• Purging behaviors
• Eating in secret
• Food rituals

Psychological:

• Fear of weight gain
• Preoccupation with food/body
• Distorted body image
• Mood changes
• Social withdrawal
• Feeling out of control with food

If yes to several: Call NEDA Helpline (1-800-931-2237) or see doctor.

Types of Eating Disorders

Type	Key Features	Treatment Focus
Anorexia Nervosa	Restriction, fear of weight gain, distorted body image	Weight restoration, challenging fears, medical monitoring
Bulimia Nervosa	Binge-purge cycles, shame, feeling out of control	Regular eating, stopping purge behaviors, addressing shame
Binge Eating Disorder	Recurrent bingeing, no purging, distress	Regular eating, emotional regulation, stopping restriction
ARFID	Restriction (sensory/fear-based), NOT weight-focused	Gradual exposure, addressing anxiety, nutritional rehabilitation
Orthorexia	Obsession with "healthy" eating	Challenging rigidity, food flexibility, addressing anxiety

Treatment Team Members

Role	Responsibilities	How Often
Medical Doctor	Physical health monitoring, medical complications	Initially weekly, then monthly+
Therapist	Psychological work, coping skills, underlying issues	1-2x weekly initially
Dietitian (ED-specialized)	Meal planning, nutrition education, challenging food fears	Weekly initially
Psychiatrist (if needed)	Medication management	Monthly or as needed
Support Group	Peer support, shared experiences	Weekly (optional but helpful)

Levels of Care

Level	Intensity	When It's Appropriate
Outpatient	Weekly appointments	Medically stable, strong support, motivated
IOP	3-5 days/week, 3-4 hrs/day	Need structure but can live at home
PHP	5-7 days/week, 8+ hrs/day	Need daily support, medically stable for nights home
Residential	24/7 at facility	Need around-the-clock support, not acute medical crisis
Inpatient	Hospital setting	Medical emergency, severe malnutrition, safety risk

Recovery Timeline (General—varies widely)

Phase	Timeframe	What to Expect
Early	0-3 months	High anxiety, following meal plan, medical stabilization, ED thoughts loud
Early-Mid	3-6 months	Weight stabilizing, more good days, challenging fear foods, therapy work deepening
Middle	6-12 months	ED thoughts less consuming, using skills automatically, life beyond ED emerging
Later	12+ months	ED thoughts rare/brief, flexible eating, body neutrality, focus on life goals

Remember: Not linear. Setbacks don't erase progress.

Coping Skills Quick List

When urges arise:

1. Pause (don't act immediately)
2. Deep breathing (4-7-8: inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8)
3. Call support person
4. Distract (activity, music, conversation)
5. Opposite action (do opposite of urge)
6. Ride it out (urges peak and decrease)

When body image is difficult:

1. Limit body checking
2. Wear comfortable clothes
3. Body neutrality statements
4. Gratitude for body function
5. Distract from appearance focus
6. Talk to therapist

When social eating is anxious:

1. Plan ahead (look at menu)
2. Bring support person
3. Focus on conversation
4. Set boundaries (decline diet talk)
5. Breathe through anxiety
6. Process with team after

What Mo CAN and CANNOT Do

Mo CAN:

• ✅ Encourage you to follow your treatment team's guidance
• ✅ Support general wellness (sleep, stress)
• ✅ Provide resources for finding treatment
• ✅ Validate that recovery is hard and possible

Mo CANNOT:

• ❌ Provide meal plans
• ❌ Give calorie/weight recommendations
• ❌ Replace your treatment team
• ❌ Advise on food choices specific to ED recovery

For ALL eating/nutrition questions in ED recovery: Ask your ED dietitian.

Finding Treatment

Step-by-step:

1. Call NEDA Helpline: 1-800-931-2237 (they'll help find local providers)
2. See primary care doctor for referral
3. Check NEDA provider database online
4. Call insurance for in-network ED specialists
5. Ask potential providers: "Do you specialize in eating disorders?"
6. Build team: MD, therapist, dietitian (all ED-specialized)

Don't settle for providers without ED specialization. It matters.

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🔗 Connections to Other Topics

Related Wellness Science

• Body Science: Set Point Theory - Understanding your body's natural weight range
• Nutrition: Balanced Eating - What normal, flexible eating looks like
• Mental Health & Stress - The psychological components of eating disorders
• Sleep Science - How malnutrition affects sleep and vice versa
• Women's Health: Menstrual Health - Hypothalamic amenorrhea and RED-S
• Gut Health - Digestive recovery and refeeding
• Movement & Exercise - Healthy relationship with movement vs. compulsive exercise

Related Goals

• Adolescent Nutrition - Eating disorders often emerge during teen years
• Endurance Training - RED-S in endurance athletes
• Strength & Power - Weight cutting dangers and disordered eating
• Team Sports Nutrition - Sport-specific pressures and eating disorders
• Healthy Weight Management - Non-diet approaches to prevent disordered eating
• Immune Support - Malnutrition and immune function
• Bone Health - Long-term consequences of eating disorders

## 📚 Sources

Evidence-Based References

Tier A: Systematic Reviews, Meta-Analyses, Treatment Guidelines

1. Eating Disorders: Diagnostic Criteria and Clinical Features

   • American Psychiatric Association. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR). 2022.
   • Defines criteria for anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, ARFID, OSFED.

2. Genetics and Biology of Eating Disorders

   • Yilmaz Z, Hardaway JA, Bulik CM. "Genetics and epigenetics of eating disorders." Adv Genomics Genet. 2015;5:131-150.
   • Evidence: 50-80% heritability; eating disorders are biological illnesses with genetic basis.

3. Treatment Guidelines for Eating Disorders

   • American Psychiatric Association. "Practice Guideline for the Treatment of Patients with Eating Disorders." 2023.
   • Evidence-based recommendations for assessment, treatment, levels of care.

4. Family-Based Treatment for Adolescents

   • Lock J, Le Grange D. Treatment Manual for Anorexia Nervosa: A Family-Based Approach. 2nd ed. Guilford Press; 2013.
   • Evidence: FBT is first-line treatment for adolescent anorexia; strong evidence base.

5. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Eating Disorders (CBT-E)

   • Fairburn CG. Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Eating Disorders. Guilford Press; 2008.
   • Evidence: CBT-E effective for bulimia, binge eating disorder, and anorexia.

6. Recovery Outcomes

   • Eddy KT, et al. "Recovery from anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa at 22-year follow-up." J Clin Psychiatry. 2017;78(2):184-189.
   • Evidence: 60-80% achieve full or partial recovery with treatment; full recovery possible.

Tier B: Individual Studies, Clinical Research

7. Minnesota Starvation Experiment

   • Keys A, et al. The Biology of Human Starvation. University of Minnesota Press; 1950.
   • Evidence: Semi-starvation in healthy men produced ED symptoms; demonstrates starvation effects on brain/behavior.

8. Set Point Theory and Weight Regulation

   • Müller MJ, et al. "Metabolic adaptation to caloric restriction and subsequent refeeding: the Minnesota Starvation Experiment revisited." Am J Clin Nutr. 2015;102(4):807-819.
   • Evidence: Bodies defend set point weight through metabolic adaptation.

9. Brain Changes in Eating Disorders

   • Kaye WH, et al. "New insights into symptoms and neurocircuit function of anorexia nervosa." Nat Rev Neurosci. 2009;10(8):573-584.
   • Evidence: Altered brain structure and function in EDs; partly reversible with recovery.

10. Body Image in Recovery

    • Mitchison D, et al. "Body satisfaction and eating-disordered behavior." Int J Eat Disord. 2013;46(6):630-633.
    • Evidence: Fully recovered individuals show same body appreciation as those never affected.

11. Refeeding Syndrome

    • Mehanna HM, et al. "Refeeding syndrome: what it is, and how to prevent and treat it." BMJ. 2008;336(7659):1495-1498.
    • Evidence: Potentially fatal complication of reintroducing nutrition after starvation; requires medical monitoring.

12. Mortality in Eating Disorders

    • Arcelus J, et al. "Mortality rates in patients with anorexia nervosa and other eating disorders." Arch Gen Psychiatry. 2011;68(7):724-731.
    • Evidence: Anorexia has highest mortality rate of any psychiatric illness (5-10%).

Tier C: Clinical Guidelines, Expert Consensus

13. Nutritional Rehabilitation Protocols

    • Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. "Position of the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics: Nutrition Intervention in the Treatment of Eating Disorders." J Acad Nutr Diet. 2023;123(4):634-652.
    • Clinical guidelines for nutritional treatment in EDs.

14. Levels of Care

    • American Psychiatric Association, Academy for Eating Disorders. "Clinical Practice Guidelines for Eating Disorders."
    • Criteria for determining appropriate level of care (outpatient through inpatient).

15. Dialectical Behavior Therapy for BED

    • Safer DL, et al. "Dialectical behavior therapy for binge eating disorder." Curr Psychiatry Rep. 2009;11(4):280-286.
    • Evidence: DBT effective for binge eating disorder and emotional eating.

Professional Organizations and Resources

• National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA): nationaleatingdisorders.org — Patient education, provider directory, helpline
• Academy for Eating Disorders (AED): aedweb.org — Professional guidelines, research
• ANAD (Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders): anad.org — Support groups, resources
• FEAST (Families Empowered and Supporting Treatment): feast-ed.org — Family support and education
• Project HEAL: theprojectheal.org — Treatment access assistance

Patient Resources Cited

• NEDA Helpline: 1-800-931-2237
• NEDA Crisis Text Line: Text "NEDA" to 741741
• ANAD Helpline: 1-888-375-7767
• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988 or text

How to Use This Information

• For people struggling: These sources support that professional treatment is essential and effective. Share with loved ones or treatment team.
• For loved ones: These sources help understand eating disorders are medical illnesses requiring specialized treatment.
• For Mo: This evidence base supports redirecting all ED-related questions to professional treatment teams.

Critical Note: Eating disorders are complex medical illnesses. All nutritional and psychological treatment must be provided by ED-specialized professionals. This information is educational, not prescriptive.

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🔧 How Mo Can Support

What Mo Can Do

• ✅ Encourage following treatment team guidance
• ✅ Support general wellness habits (sleep, stress management)
• ✅ Validate that recovery is hard AND possible
• ✅ Redirect to professional resources when needed
• ✅ Provide general nutrition education (when appropriate)
• ✅ Support non-food-focused wellbeing goals

What Mo Will Not Do

• ❌ Provide meal plans or calorie targets
• ❌ Give weight recommendations
• ❌ Suggest food restrictions (even "healthy" ones)
• ❌ Replace your treatment team
• ❌ Advise on compensatory behaviors
• ❌ Offer specific ED recovery protocols

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📚 Resources

Crisis Support

Resource	Contact
NEDA Helpline	1-800-931-2237
Crisis Text Line	Text "NEDA" to 741741
ANAD Helpline	1-888-375-7767
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline	988

Treatment Resources

• NEDA — National Eating Disorders Association
• ANAD — Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders
• FEAST — Families Empowered and Supporting Treatment
• Project HEAL — Treatment access and support

Finding Treatment

• Ask your doctor for referrals to ED specialists
• Check with insurance for covered providers
• Look for ED-specialized dietitians (not general dietitians)
• Consider intensive outpatient (IOP) or residential if needed

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💡 Key Takeaways

For Anyone in Recovery

• You deserve help. Eating disorders are illnesses, not failures.
• Recovery is possible. Many people fully recover with proper support.
• Professional help is essential. This isn't something to "figure out" alone.
• Setbacks aren't failures. They're part of the process.
• There is life beyond this. It gets better.

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For Mo

Critical Guidance

This is a sensitive topic requiring special handling:

1. Never provide specific eating guidance (meal plans, calories, portions)
2. Always emphasize professional treatment is essential
3. Redirect to resources when ED behaviors/thoughts are discussed
4. Don't engage with requests for restriction advice, even if framed as "healthy eating"
5. Watch for red flags that may indicate active ED behaviors

Red Flags Requiring Redirection

• Requests for very low calorie targets
• Questions about "safe" purging
• Detailed logging of restriction
• Extreme exercise plans as compensation
• Statements suggesting active ED behaviors
• Requests that "aren't about an eating disorder" but clearly are

How to Respond

If someone mentions ED recovery:

• Validate their journey
• Ask if they have professional support
• Offer to help with non-ED-specific wellness goals
• Gently redirect food-specific questions to their treatment team

If someone appears to have an active ED:

• Do not engage with requests for restriction advice
• Provide crisis resources
• Encourage professional help
• Keep response compassionate but clear

Example Responses

"I'm in recovery and want help with my diet." "I'm glad you're in recovery—that takes real courage. Since eating disorder recovery requires specialized nutritional guidance, it's important to work closely with your treatment team, especially an ED-specialized dietitian, for any food-related questions. I can definitely help with other aspects of wellness like sleep, stress management, or general fitness goals that your team has approved. What does your treatment team say about your current focus areas?"

"I just want to eat healthy, I don't have an eating disorder." [If context suggests possible ED:] "I want to make sure I'm supporting you well. Some of what you're describing sounds like it might benefit from a conversation with a healthcare provider who specializes in nutrition. Would you be open to checking in with a professional? In the meantime, I'm happy to help with other wellness topics like sleep, stress, or movement."

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❓ Common Questions

Q: Do I need a dietitian specifically, or can any nutritionist help? A: For eating disorder recovery, you need an ED-specialized dietitian (RD or RDN). General nutritionists, even good ones, aren't trained for the complexities of ED recovery and can inadvertently cause harm.

Q: Will I have to eat foods I'm afraid of? A: Eventually, yes—food exposure is part of recovery. But it's gradual and supported. Your treatment team will help you challenge fear foods at a pace you can handle. This is why professional guidance is essential.

Q: How long does recovery take? A: It varies widely—months to years. Full recovery (eating without distress, positive body image) is absolutely possible. Research shows recovered individuals have the same body appreciation as people who never had an ED.

Q: Can I recover without weight gain? A: Depends on your situation. If you're underweight, weight restoration is medically necessary and part of recovery. Your treatment team determines target ranges, not you. Trust the process.

Q: Is it normal for recovery to feel worse before better? A: Yes. Discomfort with food, body changes, and challenging thoughts is normal. This is why you need a treatment team—they help you navigate these difficult phases.

Q: Can Mo help me with my recovery? A: Mo can support general wellness (sleep, stress, movement your team approves) but cannot provide meal plans, calorie guidance, or food-specific advice for ED recovery. That must come from your ED-specialized treatment team.